When dating successfully, getting your
timing right is one of the single most
important factors.

Dating can be so frustrating for men—it's not easy to figure out what women want or like!
My tips might help it make it clear how you can act, what you shout wear, and what to say to attract and keep the attention of women who interest you.
If you behave like a gentleman you'll find dating success.
Just for the sake of argument, let's describe a successful date by one that has left you smiling all night long and looking forward for a second one.
In the general idea of things, a first date is like a job interview; the second date is more like the training stage and the third date?
Well, if you get there that means that you have got the job!

So, let's make sure that you get that second date?

Perfect Planning Of The First Date

1.
Don't arrive late or early. Arrive on time, this shows that you are punctual, polite and have your life well organised.
Try to take your date to an attractive place that you know well.
There is nothing worse than going out on a first date with someone that did bother to put some effort at all into the special evening.
Let's say you know that you are taking out a vegetarian? In that case do not pull up in front of the local steakhouse and expect her to be a happy camper.

First find out a few details about her and then show that you care by honouring them.

Go For The "Clean Shave" Look!

2. Focus on your personal hygiene.
Just so you give out the impression "I simply do not care" more loudly than bad breath or body odour.
If you like someone well enough to ask them out on a date, then you should like them sufficiently well to at least have a nice long shower and brush your teeth before you show up.
Please note, if you make flowers wilt and your eyes water on the drive over, then you have gone overboard with the cologne.

Dress To Impress

Choose clothing that fits your body type and focus on choosing things that flatter you. Don't just go with the current fashion. Fashion is only good if it works on you; otherwise, it's a mistake.

3. First date dressing can be tricky since you usually don't know your date well enough to guess what will be attractive to her.
You want to look magnificent but not unattainable, chic but not cheap. If you know that you are heading to a restaurant and a movie, in that case dress accordingly.
Don't show up to a nice place in a tee shirt and ratty jeans and expect to cause a good impression.
If she shows up in a nice dress and heels, you will know right away that you might not get your second chance.
The way you dress for a first date says a lot about who you are and provides some significant visual clues to your date. For that reason you must do your best to get her to like what she sees.

To Give or Not to Give

At last you had the nerve to ask her out. After weeks (or maybe months) of planning the right move so you could ask her out, the moment finally came.

4. She said "yes" and now you find yourself in a dilemma. You have considered taking her to a nice quite but trendy restaurant for dinner.
You would like to give her flowers but you feel it's too grand a gesture. Well, you are wrong.
On the opposite your date would be more amazed and privileged if you surprise her with a bouquet of flowers.
For a girl there is nothing sweeter than finding your date on the doorstep laden with a bouquet.
So don't show up empty handed.
An elegant bouquet is always a nice touch, even if some people think it is hopelessly old fashioned, trust me you will see the first of many smiles.
There is a reason some things endure though; they work!

Remember Your Manners!
Keep in mind you show respect, you get respect.

5. No one expects you to be a dining etiquette expert, but basic courtesy is so simple and the best thing to use not just on the first date, but always.
Manners are very significant.
They show that someone has been brought up well and that they know how to behave. Having manners show the type of person that you are! Sometimes is something so simple and I think they are important and it's polite to say please and thank you to people. Open the car door for her, hold doors open anywhere you go; precede her in a crowd, follow her while walking through the restaurant: when approaching to table, ask the woman which side she prefers; pull her chair out when she is being seated; don't talk with your mouth full, don't eat too fast; don't sip of your drink while still chewing. And do not, I repeat, do not belch just before leaning in for a kiss! After leaving the restaurant escort her on the outside of the sidewalk (that is, the street side) to shield her from splashes.

Avoid Monopolizing The Conversation.

6. Let her see your interest.
If your date is talking about something boring, try not to let your mind wander too far away.
As soon as a man stops listening we know. Try to maintain eye contact with your date.
Looking around looks as if you are either not involved, or you are looking for something (or someone) better.
During the first few dates you don't want to get into past relationships, personal issues such as illnesses, depression, and other touchy subjects.
Don't start telling your date how gloomy your life is. Be happy, fun and constantly have a smile on your face.
Be a positive person. Conversation is one of the most significant parts of the date.
You need to keep the conversation exciting. Talk about nice things, a happy conversation will keep your date awake. Avoid opening each sentence with the word, "I." If you can't talk about something else but yourself, then chances are you're a real bore.

First Impressions Are Very Significant!

Studies show that it takes as little as three seconds to build up an impression, and as long as five years to change that opinion (good or bad).

7. Body language guru Judi James said eye contact is extremely important when a prospective couple meet for the first time because it allows them to be able to read each other.
Eye contact makes some people uncomfortable, but it is very important when you are communicating with someone.
This is not the same as paying attention, but the two do go hand in hand.
You can let your date know that you are paying attention by your facial expressions.
Smile more often, and keep nodding at the other person.
Let your facial relax so that you are not smiling tensely, and let your facial expression change as the conversation changes.
When you are chatting with someone, they like to feel that you are listening to them, that their ideas, opinions and feelings are important to you.
That's why making good eye contact while you are talking is a important way for you to show other people that you value them and enjoy their company.

8. Be present in the moment.
Firstly you should compliment her on the way she looks.
Tell her things like, she looks wonderful in that outfit, or she has really gorgeous hair and how attractive you find her.
Women adore compliments, so no harm in putting on the charm.
Along with paying attention and making eye contact, you need to connect with her.
Ask and answer questions, get involved, let her know a little bit about yourself.
Show her that you actually are enjoying being there with her.
The more you look like you are enjoying yourself, the more attractive you will look.
You want to have the ideal combination of asking your date a little about them while offering some information about you.
You never want the conversation to be one-sided.

Enjoy The Moment!

9. Remember in order to have a successful first date it has to be amusing...
If you really want to make an impression on a first date and make her fall for you, take her on a unique date she will never forget.
By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again and again.
And remember don't act needy. Very few things will drive a woman away faster.
Also, don't act possessive if she decides to wander away and talk to someone else.
It's nice to talk to other people even if you are on a date.

Follow These Rules And There May Be A Second Date!

10. Read the signs for that final moment
You probably thought about it all day and night: should you try for the kiss or not.
Has she reached out to touch you during conversation?
Did she grab a mint or gum right after the meal?
Is she staring at your lips?
Then kiss her, you fool! Lean in, gently kiss her and let things develop from there.
And after you pull back, pray that you have enough sense in your head to actually ask for a second date before you go floating away.